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im not really sure how to handle not being into my partner when they are more masc, like i love their personality and they are so fun and sweet but i dont really know how to deal with not being attracted to them as a whole person
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Anonymous 2w

they are genderfluid, shouldve mentioned

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Anonymous 2w

communication is everything. start with, i love it when youre like *this* instead of, im not into you when youre like *that*, if that makes sense. reframe it bc it sounds rly negative and its not worth risking your relationship over :<

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i ended up talking about it with them and it went pretty well, they didnt take it as me not liking part of them or anything

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