Honestly I agree that that sucks. The whole thing where assigned gender at birth is asked every time I say I’m nonbinary.. it just feels like people don’t see nonbinary as a gender in itself. I’m tired of having to disclose what’s in my pants to enter certain spaces

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people hear nb and assume androgyny like no 😭 nb is a spectrum - androgynous nb

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Yes! I went through a period of thinking I had to present androgynously to be “true nb” but I realized that if an AMAB person was wearing the exact same things with the same hair and makeup they would be taken more seriously as nb and that helped me feel okay being more feminine and knowing that it doesn’t make me any less nonbinary

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That part! Gender is what’s on the inside and if they can’t respect that they can honestly die!

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"People in queer spaces" the same people who also have diverse identities and are supposed to support you??? What the hell???

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upvote

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I will NEVER understand people in queer spaces judging others in the space for having identities outside of the queer norm. THATS THE WHOLE POINT IS WERE NOT THE NORM, WHY ARE WE JUDGING EACH OTHER LIKE THAT

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