Neurodivergent on Sidechat | I don’t know who needs to hear this, but a parent should continue to love and care for you after you’re an adult, unconditional love doesn’t stop at 18, otherwise it was conditioned on you being a minor

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Neurodivergent 7w

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but a parent should continue to love and care for you after you’re an adult, unconditional love doesn’t stop at 18, otherwise it was conditioned on you being a minor

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Anonymous 7w

I love you for this but also I’m going the FUCK back to bed 😭

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Anonymous 7w

I mean? Mine say they do? But took them like 8-9 hours for them to get to the hospital when I was admitted for appendicitis and was waiting for surgery. The drives less then two hours

Anonymous 7w

☹️☹️☹️

Anonymous 7w

It breaks my heart hearing how so many parents just cut ties with their adult children. When I moved out I called my mom out on all her bullshit and stopped talking to her for several months and yet she still sent me cards and money to help with college and housing. We’re really close now and she’s apologized for how I was raised. I hope everyone can find their found family and have that unconditional love and support

Anonymous 7w

So true! One of the values of Indian culture which I will be passing on to my kids. Other things I won’t be passing down, like not openly talking about periods and discouraging men from knowing about periods.

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Anonymous 7w

Facts but guardians and parents don’t understand or want to follow it

Anonymous 7w

Mine stopped providing for me as soon as I turned 18. Which is why I chose to go to college to live on my own. I’m 22 now and they still never speak to me or visit :/

Anonymous 7w

mine not only never came that was when they told me they dropped me from insurance at the end of the month i started school

Anonymous 7w

Wait, it doesn’t stop at the age of 18? Oh… I thought that was normal. Shit

Anonymous

#3 7w

When I had appendicitis, my parents made a 3 hour drive into 1 1/2 while driving a side by side. That’s so not okay for your parents to do, especially considering how bad appendicitis can be. I’m sorry they did that, and you deserve better ☹️🫶🏻

Anonymous

#4 7w

Dang, Funny thing is I went back to my dorm when I was released after surgery and they only got me a week after surgery and took me home because I was still in to much pain, saying they would help take care of me…. I was alone. Some days I was left to watch kids under the age of five.

Anonymous

#3 7w

Kind of reminds me of when I had a mental health crisis at college and my dad came to see me and support me, then when I called my parents the next day, my mom said she cared and wanted to support me as well, but what she said before that was lowkey guilt tripping me because my dad chose to drive out to my school

Anonymous

#2 7w

Mine got mad and wouldn’t call/answer my calls for a couple days because I wouldn’t drive six plus hours to run an errand for them and go back to college on my only free day

Anonymous

#3 7w

When I had appendicitis, my Asian parents told me it’s no big deal, and asked me to just let them know when I wake up.

Anonymous

#2 7w

No because literally I went right back to bed after waking up to start my day 😭

Anonymous

#9 7w

You’re so real for that ngl

Anonymous

#12 7w

sending love 💕💕💕💕

Anonymous

#12 7w

Omg you’re so strong! Sending lots of love 💕💞💞

Anonymous

#8 7w

That’s actually insane omg

Anonymous

#7 7w

Hell yeah you rock

Anonymous

#12 7w

You deserve better bestie 💜

Anonymous

#12 7w

Gosh, that’s awful, I’m so sorry. But also good for you! Like you did that <3

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Anonymous

#9 7w