I’m also autistic and I just pretended I had already lost it when I met new people and eventually someone just liked me lmao

19

I lost mine to my bf after graduating high school. It was a sort of “get it over with” experience for me as a woman because I knew it was going to hurt like hell no matter what (and I was right)

10

i’m 23 and still a virgin. i decided not to care about sex and if i get a partner who judges me for it, then i know they’re not for me and don’t deserve to be my first. i just don’t think about it ever

8

I lost mine in January (I’m 21 rn) to a friend after we had been fooling around w/o penetration for a couple of months

4

I just did a random hookup tbh. we met online, made sure we were both on the same page, and I think we talked for about two weeks first. I really should've been a lot safer though, such as meeting in person first and finding someone my own age instead, but I was 18 and depressed lol

1

I didn’t feel safe with any of my first few partners, I’m 20 now and just found someone wonderful, but if I hadn’t met them I’d wait as long as it takes, sex isn’t everything and you don’t have to tell anyone whether or not you’re a virgin (unless you are about to have sex bc they will be able to tell)

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20, freshman year of college, met at a bar (both using fakes) and dated for 3 months. She was left behind by her friends and I walked her home cause her dorm was near mine. Happened about a month later. Was a good experience and learned a lot, she did kinda expect traditional gender roles which I wasn’t a huge fan of. As in guy initiates and plans all the time and stuff like that. I think it was just what she was used to though and we could have worked on it but then summer came and split us up.

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19, with a guy from my uni, that I met through a dating app. About two months of dates, but he couldn’t commit. I think it was a hook up/situationship, but don’t mind because he made sure I felt safe, and was willing to communicate so we’re on the same page. Wouldn’t necessarily recommend tho, especially not if you’re a lover girl/boy

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