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Neurodivergent 43w
begging my ocd to stop convincing me that finding someone of a different race /ethnicity attractive means i’m fetishizing them
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Anonymous 43w

ANYWAY op yeah i feel this, i have really bad ocd thoughts about every ism and ist out there, it’s frustrating to navigate with that in your head. we got this !!!

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Anonymous 43w

Same when I dislike someone from one different race and my mind keeps making me believe that I’m racist 😭😭😭

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Anonymous 43w

Social media has rotted so many brains. They love introducing terms that blur the lines between normal behavior and weird sicko in a way that festers

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Anonymous 43w

Fetishization would be if you are only looking in a sexual way. If you find them genuinely beautiful, you’re all good.

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Anonymous 43w

And so what if you are? Why have guilt about it? It’s literally okay.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 43w

scared to ask what happened when i wasn’t checking this app but thank you friend

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 43w

no fr i think that social media is the main culprit causing me to obsessively police every behavior i have

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 43w

this and cancel culture 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 43w

lol it was just some random loser that said smthn like “well those thoughts didn’t come from nowhere!! you only get ocd intrusive thoughts about things that you believe!!!” and i had to ✋ cut that shit out

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Anonymous 43w

Sorry I’m not a gooner I guess

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Anonymous 11w

It has been 31 weeks...

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