Just start talking about traits/symptoms you have in common and mention how they’re because of autism. You don’t have to be explicit about you having the traits in common but after a while if she doesn’t get it then you can start being more explicit

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No

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I just tell them I think they do

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if they’re a person who makes a lot of jokes/values humor, great - they’ve probably already self diagnosed. if it’s a functional thing- like they won’t get it, then nah it’ll buff out. if you’re in a spot where you can make shifts though to make things easier for them without needing a diagnosis, then that’s the sweet spot.

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Tell em you love meeting other autism people’s

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no, and it’s not your place to say it

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In a private setting, or one on one with her in a public place where nobody pays attention to everyone else, let her know, “hey, I’m sure you know I have autism, right? Well, you’ve been displaying a lot of characteristics and behaviors that autism is known to cause. I think you might be able to make your life easier if you find out for sure”

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i just tell them they have autistic traits, in a light-hearted way

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