
Just don’t. Hobbies are better anyways. A relationship will only get in between you and acquisition of more steam engines. At least that’s the conclusion I have come to. I hired a surrogate and nanny so I could have my children and give them a mother. She is paid well to leave me alone
What is your “train”? Focus on the things that are important to you. Your “train” if you will. Relationships will happen if they need to. You don’t need to search because it will come to you eventually. Searching just leads to multiple failures until you decide to give up. Then out of nowhere a real relationship will arise