Ever since COVID, the only way I know how to carry a conversation is to either (over)share our feelings or teach people random nerd stuff that I happen to know about at the moment. Tends not to work so well on a first date unfortunately.
random nerd stuff will work with the right person!! i was weird as hell on my first date with my now bf bc i wanted to make sure he knew what he was getting into and it’s almost been 2 years :)
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Anonymous6d
maybe you could try thinking and talking about things you don't know a lot about. you can get a lot of conversational miles wondering/theorizing how things are.