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Never thought id say this but my new job is more helpful than any therapy ive ever had. I work at a mediation nonprofit and its helped so much in figuring out how to understand people and why theyre upset, and working on my sense of justice/hyperempathy
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Like i have to be a neutral party and i cant comment on things i feel are unjust w clients bc thats between them and the other party. I shouldnt hold and manage ppls feelings and now i have tools for how to encourage that in others, like i can defer in a healthy manner and compartmentalize shit now.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

I had such a hard time previously to the point of ruining my relationships ab shit that isnt my business that id be neurotic about. Now i can let it go. I feel like my biggest issues in communicating are being challenged with my job in a manageable way and im growing as a result. Im flabbergasted

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

I know when to shut the fuck up now! Like what

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