
As someone who has gone through a lot of childhood trauma surrounding my diagnosis and the time of my life when I was being evaluated and getting diagnosed idk how i feel about it. but i can say you should definitely pre-sue an accurate diagnosis especially if you need any accommodations or you may benefit from the closer a diagnosis can bring.
I’m definitely on the spectrum or have adhd, maybe both. Most of my friends growing up had autism or adhd. I had to teach myself social dynamics and ‘common sense.’ I didn’t come with the built in programming most people get + I have sensory issues. I’m not sure if being diagnosed would be a good idea, becuase I don’t want people to treat me differently based solely on that label.
I’d get diagnosed, people will treat you differently with or without the label, the label is just for u to have a guideline for what’s up and what you can do to aid self (or have other people aid you) the only bad thing abt a diag is the price, u can just not disclose that u have anything too