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Wait that’s actually such a good point. It really is just anti neurodivergence 😭🥀
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Anonymous 8w

so glad they don’t care if i fidget now in college. i have an anxiety disorder and need to let out the tension somehow

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Anonymous 8w

Literally 1984. (Only thing I kind of understand is lips are closed and ears are listening)

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Anonymous 8w

People listening to podcasts at the gym are following none of these rules and still absorbing everything their « listening ears » hear.

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Anonymous 8w

throwback to when my 3rd grade teacher moved my desk to the back of the class, deliberately separating me from everyone else, for “fidgeting” lol

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Anonymous 8w

not really 😕 this is just promoting not being a nuisance to classmates who are trying to learn

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

can’t even move my hands or feet like damn

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

I mean yeah if you’re constantly fidgeting it’s a distraction to others in the class

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

not if They have their Eyes Watching Ears Listening. seriously sounds like a them problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Bouncing my leg quietly does not distract others and it grounds me and allows me to concentrate. Or twiddling my thumbs. Or doodling

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

It labels kids with disabilities as trouble makers without looking for more accommodating alternatives. Besides, kids in general typically have a lot of energy. They’re kids. At some point it becomes less about reducing distractions and more about enforcing this idea of what a perfect kid should look like.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

Yes it does actually 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Then you need to have your ears listening and eyes watching the teacher instead. Not my fault silent actions lead to yourself getting distracted.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

it’s not as silent as you think bro. You bouncing your leg shakes the whole table no matter how quiet you think you’re being. It’s also very common knowledge that if a room is otherwise still, eyes will move to where there is movement. So even though you think you’re not being distracting, you actually are.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Maybe if your ears were listening then this wouldn’t be an issue Idk(Do you see how everyone is negatively affected? (You’ve never gotten in trouble for being distracted by another student or, worse, the teacher?))

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

You’re sitting in a room full of people as is. It’s going to be somewhat distracting based off the environment itself already. Even the sound of people writing bothered me sometime but I couldn’t do jacked about it. For people who just can’t learn that way, they need to have other avenues that ensure their success(which there aren’t enough)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Me silently bouncing my leg, at my own table, on my own chair, not shaking anything is not doing anything to you. Just because you can’t control yourself only means you need adderall

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

No I’ve never gotten in trouble for that because I was a well-behaved kid. There’s a difference between struggling to pay attention and misbehaving.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

literally what are you talking about. where did I say I can’t control myself?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

If a silent leg bouncing can distract you from the very loud instructor, then you cannot control yourself.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

no, if you’re bouncing your leg (not silent btw no matter how much you think it is) YOU can’t control yourself.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Genuinely youre acting neurotypical with your blatant lack of education and consideration on these things. Please just stop ✋😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

( well let’s be considerate not every neurodivergent person is autistic or adhd and not every autistic or adhd individual will relate )

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Yes! which is precisely why I think more people need to stfu and just listen when it doesn’t apply to them since everyones problems present differently 💀👍

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

I literally crocheted through all my classes (had a note taking accommodation) and that was the best I’ve ever done academically

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 8w

(throwback to this being like the 7th significant cue that I was some type of neurodivergent and needed support I wasn’t getting, all of which my parents chose to overlook, even as my mother kept joking about me “acting like a [slur]”)

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Anonymous 8w

“You people” yeah ok bro 💀 you’ve lost all your credibility. Go take your disability larping ass somewhere else.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

And now their dumb comments are all gone because they know they wrong lmao I rest my case 🤣

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