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Neurodivergent 21h
What’s up guys I’m an autistic guy and I have lots of issues dating non autistic women but I also know yall don’t like being targeted And I’m not sure what to do… Could I have some advice please?
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Anonymous 19h

If you’re autistic, then it isn’t targeting us. We have issues with NT men who fetishize autistic women, but wanting to date an autistic person as an autistic person is so different.

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Anonymous 21h

What exactly are you having issues with?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

I’m having issues with relating to them on a personal level and they can’t understand me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Do they try to understand you at at all?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Not really, they usually dismiss me and that hurts :( I’m a really big guy and they talk down to me like I’m a child

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Ok I understand. Thank you :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Do you try to understand them & ask questions about themselves? As an autistic woman, I often find that autistic men can be very oblivious to my feelings and prefer to *only* talk about themselves — even without meaning to.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13h

Oh I’ve definitely improved on this. I used to be just like that but I had to realize that theirs more people in the world than me

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