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Had a few dates with a fellow neurodivergent trans guy, he seemed invested to the point that he was taking notes on my interests and boundaries during our dates…he’s been ignoring me since we fucked a month ago 🤪 I shouldn’t care but FUCKKK that hurts
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Anonymous 20h

Proof that trans men are real men

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Anonymous 6h

Some ppl just wanna fuck and be done with it. It’s messed up but it’s true

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Anonymous 9h

Yeah naw man

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Anonymous replying to -> sage_cyclone46 6h

Yeahhh but like why present yourself as someone who is very invested and looking for something more long term if you know you’re just gonna stop fucking responding the moment I leave your house after fucking you the first time. And if you realized that it isn’t what you want after you fucked me, you kinda owe me an explanation, idk 🤷

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6h

Well in that case there’s prob shit going on u don’t know about. Messed up he didn’t tell you but, you know, it’s say easier to ghost then confront uncomfortable or difficult situations sometimes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

I still think he owes you an explanation. But if he blocks you don’t text him from another number or anything.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5h

Nah, as pissed as I am about it, I’m not about to chase him down for an explanation. Giving me an explanation is the right thing to do, but at this point, I don’t expect him to do the right thing 🤷

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Anonymous replying to -> sage_cyclone46 5h

I had told him multiple times during our conversations that if he’s not gonna be able to respond for a while, I’d at least appreciate a heads up because I might feel ignored otherwise He’s kind of gone directly against that expectation (that he agreed to btw) and has indeed caused me to feel ignored and rather discarded given the context that he stopped talking to me the second I left his house after fucking him 🤷

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

Well fuck him then. Honestly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

As much as I wanna give people the benefit of the doubt, being ignored for weeks at a time with zero communication goes against what I expected of him based on the expectations we had discussed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

Yeah I get it. He betrayed you

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