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Neurodivergent 1d
As a somewhat autistic girl I have such a hard time understanding my feelings. I have a guy bsf who im super super super close to and text every second of every day, tell literally everything to, and am 100% comfortable with to the point that he literally
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Anonymous 1d

Knows like when I’m getting my period and I tell all kinds of personal stuff to. And I genuinely cant tell if I’m in love with him or not because I don’t want to be but I also know he’s the sweetest guy ever and is an actual proper gentlemen and knows how to communicate and treat a woman. He completely matches my energy and I can act so stupid with him and he will just be the same back. But i have absolutely zero physical attraction to him. I’ve never so much as given him a hug and I’m repulsed

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Anonymous 1d

I'm happy for you having such a good friend, I'm a little jealous! Sorry I don't have any particular advice for you, but I really hope you're both able to maintain the good friendship you have together no matter what you decide to do!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

At the thought of doing anything with him. I’ve gotten with other guys before and love physical touch from some people so it isn’t an issue of that. But I don’t want any physical contact from him. And I’m starting to get the feeling that he kinda likes me now also, even though we’ve done everything possible to not make that happen and talked multiple times about how it wouldn’t work. But I don’t know what to do now and I’m so confused. Help

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