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Neurodivergent 22h
Do yall ever wish someone would just ask if you’re okay and it never happens
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Anonymous 19h

When someone asks if I’m ok I immediately start sobbing and can’t even tell them why

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Anonymous 18h

Yes. Nobody I know ever asks how I’m doing or seems remotely interested in my life. I don’t want to seem self centered but I can’t handle having any more conversations about clothes or instagram or boyfriends. I’m struggling to stay alive right now.

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Anonymous 21h

Do you need an ear?

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Anonymous 17h

yeah but i stopped having that feeling and accepted that there might not be anyone to do that for me but if a situation happens ill always ask someone if they’re okay . you kinda get used to it sadly . not everyone cares or is genuine

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Anonymous 17h

granted… some people get yelled at for asking if someone’s okay so they avoid asking if someone’s okay because they don’t want to upset someone or get yelled at for asking.

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Anonymous 19h

Just ask some one to check on you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

If you have to ask someone to check on u then they don’t need to be your friend

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

I went to the psych ward and they always check on you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

That’s a psych ward with professionals acting as your friend

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

Thank you but Im doing more ok now i had this thought yesterday when i was at work and very clearly struggling but everyone was too swept up in their own stuff to notice or care to ask me if i needed any help. Im an assistant and was the only one working at the time on a busy day so since everyone there was superior to me I felt really alone

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

real my mom will ask me if im okay when im going through bad states of mind and i j tell her yes and go to my room and think about the shit that’s upsetting me and hurting and j cry if the feeling is charged up. cause adhd makes everything you feel heightened

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17h

and some people don’t want to be asked for help and if they are, they get aggravated. some feel like being asked if they need help means something’s wrong with them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9h

🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9h

Im sorry :( do you need to talk?

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