
Have a ‘friend’ who does his best to gateguard entire groups of people from each other. He told me this in confidence once but I’m ngl there’s no confidence when I’m one of the people he’s keeping out. This man has broken down on my shoulder before and I’m still not sure if I’m his friend or an emotional crutch. I’ve started letting him know how I feel about everything he does (it’s a lot) and nothing has changed so I’m kinda ready to go around and tell some people that this isn’t ok behavior.