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Neurodivergent 21h
i'm always so overstimulated by touch in the morning and i try to tell my boyfriend that but i feel like he doesnt get it and he gets sad that i don't like him hugging and cuddling on me but like bro your face is so close to me i can feel your breath
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Anonymous 17h

He should be respecting that boundary, full stop. You don’t need to understand or whatever to heed a boundary

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Anonymous 20h

i also hate smelling peoples breath or feeling it on my face in general like its too moist and it smells like mouth. but hes always like "but i just brushed my teeth" and im like idk how much clearer i can be that it bothers me either way? i like kissing but it gets overstimulating so fast to have people exhale right next to my nose and i just like. i hate feeling like an asshole for just trying to not be in sensory hell

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

like i feel like i need to get over it but then i get mad because it's not something i chose and i've been like that my whole life. like why are you feeling rejected by me having sensory issues. am i wrong??

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

The fact that you dislike it should be plenty sufficient reason to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

You’re not wrong! I’m like that too!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

That would really bother me too. This is also part of why I’m not in a relationship

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