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“All that pain, sadness, and shit you feel, just shove it down! You need to grow the fuck up! I don’t know who fucking raised you because I didn’t raise you to be like this. Stop being weak!” - my mom Then she’ll ask, “Why don’t you tell me anything?”
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Anonymous 5d

She’s just telling you what she was told as a child. A lot of parents have that “it is what it is” mindset when it comes to things like this. They were taught to “suck it up”

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Anonymous 5d

Also shoving it down is horrible advice! (Speaking from experience) emotions do not go away until processed first. Deal with your emotions but do not live inside them is what I think she’s trying to say. feel the depression but don’t make it your new home

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