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Neurodivergent 11w
I hate disability pornstars (people who try to please people who are disabled(saying things like “your so brave” or “it’s awesome how ur handling this”))
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Anonymous 11w

I thought you meant disabled pornstars at first an I was so confused lol

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Anonymous 11w

I’m not brave, I’m struggling deeply.

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Anonymous 11w

Okay but why tf would you call it that 💀

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Anonymous 11w

the first part of the post got me so confused 😭😭 please can we find a better phrase for them?

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Anonymous 11w

When I was in middle school I saw inspiration porn posters on the wall and it sucked

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Anonymous 11w

I mean I love encouragement but yeah I don’t like being patronized. Time and place for everything haha

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Anonymous 11w

I agree with this and also this same sentiment but for white people that tell me I’m “brave” for being POC.. like what is the alternative

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Anonymous 11w

Oh, do you mean inspiration porn?

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Anonymous 11w

You’re*

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Anonymous 11w

There’s a difference between being disabled and marketing your disability

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Exactly this is why I fucking hate things like disability pride month

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

(I’m agreeing with you)

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Anonymous 11w

That’s how all words came to be. 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous 11w

Stop hanging out in the neurodivergent yikyak if you’re gonna shit on nd people idk

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Anonymous 11w

Yeah no shit, that’s why I’m on here

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

That’s what I started calling them

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 11w

FUCK!!! W callout

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 11w

What do you have in mind?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

babying?

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 11w

Not as funny

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

But yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Disabled pornstars?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

No, people who are performative to disabled people

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

My understanding is disability pride month is a combination of raising awareness and claiming space. Like hi, we don’t have marriage equality, there’s a shit ton of eugenics, most spaces are built without us in mind, but guess what? We’re still here and you’re GOING to pay attention. That’s how I see it, at least

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 11w

Good way to think of it

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Anonymous 11w

Are you constipated? Drink lots of water, eat saag paneer, have fruits and vegetables, and take MiraLAX or Metamucil and then you’ll have an amazing bowel movement that will feel so good.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

I’m saying that disabled pornstars are already their own thing, and that’s what I thought you were talking about at first. Sorry for the confusion

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

Ur good

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 11w

Someone gave me the idea 💀

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