Neurodivergent on Sidechat | Does anyone else have the issue where people just don’t understand questions you ask? I feel like I’m super clear with my questions and often they’re simple but people over complicate it and think I’m asking something different.

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Neurodivergent 2w

Does anyone else have the issue where people just don’t understand questions you ask? I feel like I’m super clear with my questions and often they’re simple but people over complicate it and think I’m asking something different.

Anonymous 2w

Me fucking me HAHAHA. AHHHHHHHH

Anonymous 2w

I have the problem that I don’t understand the questions people ask me.

Anonymous 2w

I hate when I replay the question in my head over and over to make sure it makes sense, but once I ask it out loud apparently it’s not

Anonymous 2w

YES. I don’t understand how people just know the stuff I have to ask about. Maybe they just get lucky enough to guess right or they’re more willing to be wrong?

Anonymous 2w

I’ve learned to just simplify what I say a lot for people to understand

Anonymous

#1 2w

😭😭so glad I’m not the only one

Anonymous

OP 2w

I also tend to ask random questions that don’t fit the vibe. But I really struggle with being in the vibe because my mind is often times anywhere but. Especially in a large setting

Anonymous

#5 1w

But I did 😭😭😭

Anonymous

OP 1w

You gotta do it like they’re dumb asf + speak slow and overly enunciate. Simplify it to hell. Or gather your thoughts better. These people don’t work that fast, don’t know our phrases so they don’t know wtf we talking about. Also being blunt but if people don’t like you that much and something is hard to understand they get irritated and dgaf to make the effort to know what you’re saying.