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Neurodivergent 1d
it’s crazy how even tho my social anxiety is so bad in person when it comes to making small talk and meeting new people, i can easily talk to strangers on this app
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Anonymous 1d

Cause there’s no risk of public embarrassment

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Anonymous 1d

seems like its not a fear of people then its a fear of judgement which generally comes from self hatred

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Anonymous 1d

It’s the same for me It’s cuz I know no one and no one knows me

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Anonymous 1d

It’s the fear of perception I believe. Even when I’m out in public & not talking to anyone it feels like my skin is crawling. I may not be consciously thinking about it but my nervous system is on fire just knowing people are looking at me. Tis the tism lol, for me at least.

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Anonymous 21h

Don't dismiss it just cause it's on this app. Talking is talking and you aren't required to be perfect for an artificial challenge

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Anonymous 8h

This needs to be talked about more

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Anonymous 22h

I love anonymousing

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Anonymous 19h

Not on my school page though. I had some really bad rumors spread about me on there and people were mean.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

At least give the brick a little kiss first

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Embarrassment is a state of mind, currated, created made up! Don’t let a made up thing stop you from living life to your fullest ability everyday

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

@religiousppl lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Like Fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

No I get like this too just an over arching fear that I’m off or weird and that I’ll ruin it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

what does it mean if i'm really bad at making and keeping friends online but im able to in person

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

Maybe ur scared of the permanent feeling of what u say on the internet. Like Ur scared to say the wrong thing and have it stay as it was, especially not being in person ppl can leave space for misinterpretation

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 23h

Could also just be a different skillset

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