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How can I tell if the popular kids are being nice or mean? I am average looking and dont bother anyone so I haven't had issues before but I am awkward when people talk to me and I don't think my roommate likes me so I cant tell
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Anonymous 9w

If you're in college then mean girl behavior is pretty unlikely. Also if somebody chooses to spend time with you and talk to you 99% of the time they feel at least somehwat positively towards you.

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Anonymous 9w

don’t assume, but if you do always assume the best!

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Anonymous 9w

I get you but it’s better not to put so much weight on whether they like you or not. If you’re looking for signs they don’t like you, then you’ll probably find signs, whether they are valid or not.

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