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Neurodivergent 12w
I just went on a date and omg… I tried so hard to make convo but I felt like I was interviewing the person 😭😭
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Anonymous 12w

That’s my biggest problem with talking to ppl. I always ask questions in a way that makes it sound like an interview when I just want to encourage the other to talk about themselves 😭

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Anonymous 12w

Nah why are these comments making it seem like you’re the problem for asking interview questions- 90% of the time when I feel like that it’s because whoever I’m talking to refuses to ask ME something and THATS why it feels like an interview

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Anonymous 12w

it might be the type of questions youre asking, try to engage in their answers instead of trying to find out more right away

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Anonymous 12w

tbh that doesn’t sound like your fault at all. if the person wasn’t equally asking you questions and you felt that you had to force engagement, they were a bad date!

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Anonymous 12w

i like answering questions like that 🤷‍♂️ idk why lol

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Anonymous 12w

Thats how it is…till date #2!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

No I do but at some points there was just silence so I would ask these questions lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Maybe it would feel less like an interview if you volunteered your own responses to your questions, either before or after you ask them, cause that way at least it’s two ways

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Literallly!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

Date 2 is better??? That’s good to hear

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

It just takes a little time for you both to get comfortable 😊 2nd date is on right? 👀

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

Yes!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Nice! Do tell when it happens 😁

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

I will if I remember lol

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