
different but I'm currently feeling very ashamed about the fact I've tried getting diagnosed with adhd twice and both times got nothing. but I think my situation is just bc of terrible psychiatrists lol the first told me I'm too smart and that my ocd diagnosis isn't legitimate. the second was super insistent I have autism? which I don't think I do, but she's the school psychiatrists and I've heard this is a common issue with her where she'll diagnose you with anything but adhd lol
Every three years until I was 18 my parents would take me to have neurological testing redone to keep up with my academic accommodations, because of the testing that needs to be done It had to be a different doctor every time to avoid bias. The autism diagnosis was passed back-and-forth like a volleyball until I was 18. Finally this one doctor in New York. (she was awesome.) finally said there was no doubt I had autism. (she spent three full days in a room doing neurological tests with me.)
I am not talking about doctors who won’t diagnose you because they’re biased I am not talking about doctors who won’t diagnose you because they don’t know the full story yet I AM talking about doctors who know the context, have training, and won’t diagnose someone based on said training and experience. You asked their opinion, they gave it. Shopping doctors until you find one who will diagnose you is just confirmation bias.
Like let’s say I see three different doctors because my back has been hurting and I think it’s scoliosis. If all three of them say it’s a muscle injury and I start shopping around for a doctor who will diagnose me with scoliosis, I am deliberately ignoring the opinion of medical professionals in favor of my own bias. There’s nothing wrong with a second, third, fourth opinion if you really don’t feel seen, but at a certain point you have to listen to the advice you’re paying these people to get.