Neurodivergent on Sidechat | I struggle to communicate my thoughts in the way I intend, and it led to a friend very aggressively cutting ties with me despite a lack of clarification. This is very frustrating and does not feel right.

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Neurodivergent 1d

I struggle to communicate my thoughts in the way I intend, and it led to a friend very aggressively cutting ties with me despite a lack of clarification. This is very frustrating and does not feel right.

Anonymous 1d

(Context: expressed to my friend who invited me to a club that I was afraid of crowds and loud noises and he took it as me flaking on him)

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OP 1d

He seems to be reading it more emotionally than technically & seeing that you genuinely don’t do overstimulating environments, which is sad because you were being honest. Hopefully you can find people who like quiet environments.

Anonymous

OP 20h

tbh he’s not worth it if he can’t understand that you have sensory issues. i get if you didnt go anywhere with him, but if you dont like what he’s suggesting, suggest sensory friendly activities. hard to give good advice if i dont know the extent of the situation thi