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Neurodivergent 17h
two of my (fellow nd) friends have been having a tumultuous relationship for almost a year and they’re driving me crazy, like they keep fighting to the point of saying they have to go no contact and then getting close again, over and over 😭
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Anonymous 17h

at first i just kinda felt stuck in the middle bc one of them kept venting to me but then she told me she was irrationally angry/jealous towards me, then recently the other friend told me he did in fact have feelings for me 😭 so like i truly can’t know peace

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Run. Run for the hills.

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Anonymous replying to -> sunset_dna33 16h

like from both of them? in their defence she apologized and he accepted my rejection very gracefully but yeah this whole thing is feeling a bit too chaotic

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

If it’s in your head too much, you gotta run. It won’t get better without a crapload of effort if at all. I know from experience

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Anonymous replying to -> sunset_dna33 13h

that’s fair, i have been kinda distancing myself from the one that got angry at me bc it’s felt off since then, she’s bipolar and i was trying to be empathetic but she hasn’t been a great friend for a while now. honestly the other friend hasn’t done anything really wrong so far and tried to keep me out of their drama

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

You do what you feel is right.

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