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Neurodivergent 10w
I lowkey dont feel right when my bf carries my stuff for me, i feel bad but more importantly i wanna adhd fidget with my shit
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Anonymous 10w

This was me too. After talking to him, I realized it makes him feel good. he knows I don’t NEED help but he likes feeling like he’s taking care of me. So I just hold the item I want to hold and he carries everything else. Do both :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Thank you for this! I gotta bring it up to him 🙏🙏

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