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Neurodivergent 3w

Do any other autistic women feel like sexual attention from men is the only social attention you get? I try so hard to make girl friends and I'm a girls girl but I always end up only receiving attention from men (and the worst men too).

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Anonymous 3w

Yeah. I agree. I’m not really a girls girl, I can’t click with women, but men seem to just want me for sexual things. Which sucks because I prefer men since they’re not catty or scary. Maybe that’s because I’ve come to learn what they seem to want/it’s become predictable? It sucks though I get it

Anonymous 3w

I get you 100% I had a friend’s group when I was younger but they’ve all moved to different cities to pursue their careers and grown apart over the years and I really struggle to make new friends. My workplace is male dominated and the two ladies there are both around 30 years older than me. & out of all my male “friends” I’ve had through my life I only have one guy I’ve known since childhood who is truly there to just be my friend without ulterior motives.

Anonymous 3w

I’ll be your friend bestie

Anonymous 3w

Yes.

Anonymous 2w

Gotta befriend a man who’s not interested in you. Men mostly talk to women because they want some sort of sexual thing. The men that don’t want that kind of thing are the ones who keep to themselves

Anonymous 3w

Personally, I’ve literally never gotten attention from anyone of any gender and I have no romantic/sexual experience of any type. Atp I just think I’m too weird or unappealing for anyone to like 😞

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Anonymous

#1 3w

‘I prefer men since they’re not catty or scary’ is not something women who have respect for other women usually say. You may have different specific experiences from other people, but that generalized statement reflects poorly on your character.

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linoleum 3w

I agree. As a fellow autistic girlie that’s also struggled to make more lady friends, it makes me sad to see this spouted over and over here. It’s misogynistic through and through. I think sometimes people think that misogynistic thoughts don’t bleed into how they treat people, but it can and absolutely does. 😢 Perhaps that had contributed to the lack of success. Nowadays, of I here a lady say anything like “I don’t have women friends because they’re all ___” I immediately distance :(

Anonymous

#1 2w

It you prefer men-who literally rape and kill us all the time btw-you really just haven’t found good girl friends yet and you should try harder.