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Neurodivergent 16h
Trying to get into a relationship as a gay, transgender, neurodivergent person is genuinely like trying to fight a bear and a moose while balancing on a log heading towards Niagara Falls
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Anonymous 15h

Real

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Anonymous 12h

Not diminishing your struggle, but having grown up in Alaska do NOT fight a moose. You will not win

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Anonymous 12h

I mean this in a kind way, if you are a good person it won’t be as hard as you think

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Anonymous 13h

tragic that I finally got past all of this & was in a wonderful t4t relationship just to realize I was aroace 😭 because ofc it’s only when I get great at relationships that I find out they’re not for me

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Anonymous 13h

No FRRRR

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Anonymous 11h

My partner is gay trans and nd 😭😭

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Anonymous 9h

that's why you gotta find another gay, trans, neurodivergent person 🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous 11h

Trying as a ADHD straight white women is hard … I’m sorry for your struggle as well :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

What about that guy on YouTube that scared away a moose by raising a stick above his head like a spear and making caveman noises

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 10h

…oh come ON

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Anonymous 8h

i’m also catholic and want to mary another catholic and have children i literally objectively have it worse than you and i don’t do this victim mindset thing. many times when people do it they’re obscuring some other unattractive part of themself. obviously not always but there is people who will date you so introspect and become a better person and take accountability and eventually success becomes inevitable

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Anonymous 8h

how is that relevant to the post

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 8h

“Victim mindset” and it’s just someone making a vent post on yikyak about struggling to find a relationship 😭 Get a life

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Anonymous 8h

What do you mean by that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5h

all that yapping about how much Literally Objectively Worse you have it as a catholic who wants to follow the default mainstream social script, just to follow it up with “and I don’t do this victim mindset thing” lmaooooo

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