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My friend told me how neurotypical people date and it’s confusing. My bf just said wanna date and I said yes. There was no talking phase or situationship or whatever. We just decided to date one day and that was that
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Anonymous 4w

Why do they have to make everything so complicated

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Anonymous 4w

YES. I HATE NEUROTYPICAL DATING. I want to just go from friends to relationship. I understand friendships. I understand commitment. I don’t understand the ever changing rules of “talking”.

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Anonymous 4w

Is that not how most people date? My bf and I had 4 dates and by the 4th he asked if I’d be his gf and I said yes. But I’d stopped going out with other people after our first one anyways.

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Anonymous 4w

NO LITERALLY I hate "talking" on hinge and everything related and I once posted this guy friend on my instagram in a slide towards the back but my friends were like "why did you do a hard launch" and I had literally no idea what that was like why can't I just post a photo with a friend? I just don't get dating and I've never been in a real relationship for that reason and it's getting so lonely

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Anonymous 4w

No literally. I’ve never done the talking stage. They’re interested, I’m interested, we vibing and I have a good feeling straight to dating.

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Anonymous 4w

my fav kind of relationship is when it’s not explicitly said it’s just happens. idk why

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

To not in Audhd and so is he. Both anxious and depressed too :) we’re a pair lol

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