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Neurodivergent 1d
People look past my autism because I’m conventionally attractive, my relationships fall apart from this what can I do.
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Anonymous 1d

try to date the autistic people and try to be yourself really early on. it’ll weed bad people out and hopefully you can find other autistic people like you who can relate to you and maybe be patient if they need to be

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Anonymous 1d

I think it’s developing a better understanding of why they fall apart, and creating yourself some ways to better monitor these things, even if it’s going to a therapist and talking through situations to make sure you’re flexing the right skills in certain situations.

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Anonymous 16h

Girl I dunno I have the same problem

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Anonymous 21h

Date someone more autistic

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Anonymous 10h
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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

This and DO NOT DATE PEOPLE WHO SAY THEY WANT SOMEONE WHOS A LITTLE BIT AUTISTIC

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Yeah I totally agree, just hard to be understood in three months, people think I’m trying to argue all the time and I forget to plead ignorance in the moment

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

why avoid this

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Because they are fetishizing autistic people and they don’t actually want to date someone on the spectrum.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

They want a “superpower” autist and not a crying at a baseball game because of sensory overload autist.

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