
Assuming you’re ND. Any chance you’re autistic? I ask bc I’ve seen this first hand where someone else (either NT or “less” adhd-esque) automatically can’t stand or be around someone and before this person opens their mouth I can sense the “difference”? could they maybe be unconsciously picking something up? Not saying it’s right or anything, just maybe providing an explanation?
not diagnosed but i’m fairly certain i am on the spectrum. definitely not NT. this is exactly what i am referring to here, some people just seem to be able to sniff it out and it really bothers them. it also seems to me that lower iq individuals are actually better at detecting it than those with a higher iq. but that’s just from personal experience