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Anyone else ever wondering if you really aren’t attractive or just really self conscious
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Anonymous 10w

Sometimes I look in the mirror and think I’m hot, sometimes I think I’m ugly as hell, hashtag learning to see myself in a better light

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Anonymous 10w

in my case, i’ve been told i’m pretty many times but i’ve been beaten down about my looks so much when i was younger that i genuinely don’t believe it. i wish i could but i don’t see myself like that.

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Anonymous 10w

sometimes it's both. you're allowed to be ugly, it doesn't influence your value as a person, and besides, everyone is beautiful to someone

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Anonymous 10w

Sometimes when I’m really down and in my head I remember those that said I was pretty or beautiful and will myself to believe them. After I wallow for a few days. It’s a back and forth thing, self love.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Yeah this one’s relatable. Growing up fat is the perfect storm for lifelong insecurity and distrust of compliments. We out here healing tho day by day. Our bodies do not dictate our worth. 💪

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