Neurodivergent on Sidechat | Why is it that when people say they love me it makes me wanna run away and stop talking to them. Even though I like probably dont actually want that. It just scares me. Maybe its the commitment? Or maybe it’s that I dont trust myself somehow? Im not sure.

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Neurodivergent 4w

Why is it that when people say they love me it makes me wanna run away and stop talking to them. Even though I like probably dont actually want that. It just scares me. Maybe its the commitment? Or maybe it’s that I dont trust myself somehow? Im not sure.

Anonymous 4w

Sounds like you have an avoidant attachment cause I’m like this too

Anonymous 4w

It’s just frustrating. I get frustrated with myself cause I don’t wanna hurt anyone. But I think that’s part of the reason this happens in the first place? Or maybe I just don’t believe I deserve it? It feels like it’s a million different reasons. But every time it happens it makes me wanna run away and hide and ghost them. But I know I probably don’t actually want that but it feels like I do. I hate it.

Anonymous

#1 4w

Okay that makes sense tbh. I used to be anxious but shit happened and it changed so I just am not as familiar with it yet.

Anonymous

OP 4w

I used to be anxious attachment that is lol. I’m still anxious in general. Goddamn am I BOTH now🧍 I know that’s a thing. God I hope not😭