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Neurodivergent 10w
My ocd brain when I have an amazing and adorable boyfriend who I love, but I found one (1) other man vaguely attractive
393 upvotes, 11 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Neurodivergent. "My ocd brain when I have an amazing and adorable boyfriend who I love, but I found one (1) other man vaguely attractive"
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Anonymous 10w

in the spirit of pride month, this concept applies to literally everyone: you cannot control who you’re attracted to, but you CAN control the actions you take after feeling attracted

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Anonymous 10w

we are allowed to find people attractive! i don’t think that’s cheating imo

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Anonymous 10w

this and whenever I don’t like a person that’s not a straight white man, for reasons that have nothing to do with their race, sexual orientation, or gender, and then I convince myself I’m a terrible, racist, homophobic, sexist person 💔

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Anonymous 9w

Whenever I find someone aesthetically attractive I tell my man and we respectfully gawk at them together

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Anonymous 10w

David Lynch would say you deserve to forgive yourself 😔❤️‍🩹

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Anonymous 9w

You’ve convinced yourself that you’re all these negative things because it’s comfortable and we’ve all been tricked into thinking criticism is reality when you’re just bullying yourself. Be kind to your self

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Anonymous 10w

“what are you gonna do about that 1 other vaguely attractive man?” is the real question

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

and what do you mean “you found one other vaguely attractive man”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Obviously I’m not going to do anything about it. And what I mean is that I found one other guy somewhat attractive but in no way prefer him over my boyfriend

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

but. he would also probably understand that OCD is more complex than simply Choosing to not give yourself a hard time

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

i think ya’ll misunderstood my question. it wasn’t a “what are you planning?” suspicious kind of question it was more of a “if you see another attractive guy, what would you do next?” kind of question.

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