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Neurodivergent 11w
Just a reminder
145 upvotes, 19 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Neurodivergent. "Just a reminder"
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Anonymous 11w

Use facial expressions is a big one for me . I’m very expressive but can’t read other people’s emotions or pick up social cues or etc. lack of expressiveness is one of the big symptoms I don’t exhibit

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Anonymous 11w

Disappointing my parents 🫩

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Anonymous 11w

Fr I’m so good at reading social cues but it’s just because I learned when I was younger due to always missing cues and feeling embarrassed 😭

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Anonymous 11w

I’m living proof of this! (list of personally-accurate traits withheld)

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Anonymous 11w

what does “look attractive” mean?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

There’s a stereotype that autistic people look ugly/ don’t groom ourselves. So it means we can look hot

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

yes i know that but isnt looking attractive fairly subjective? also i know some very good looking autistic women out there.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Yeah but the stereotype is we are genuinely gross. Like yes attractiveness is subjective but unclean is not attractive. Or that we dress like 5 year olds. Both objectively not attractive things. Don’t know why you’re making this into something

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

“Also I know some very good looking autistic women out there” hence the word STEREOTYPE and hence why ITS ON THIS LIST

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

It’s not serious… like why is big ass on there? Why is serving cunt?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

that comment was just me saying stuff. i wasn’t going against anything you were saying.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Then don’t respond to me if it wasn’t for me? I was just answering your question and you genuinely could not grasp why I was saying clearly

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

why are they highlighted in white but the “look attractive” isn’t?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

i apologize for being a little literal but there’s no reason to be sarcastic about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Oh my god 🤦‍♀️ because someone changed this list. Like the original photo wasn’t about autism the header was changed too. That is common sense I fear

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

that obviously wasn’t clear to me 🤔 clearly i missed something but instead of being all sarcastic about it, maybe try stating that in a less judgmental way?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Mmkay here it goes: it’s just a list. Clearly just a list. I answered your question and you still couldn’t process it. Can’t help you if you can’t help yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

Brodie they’re just autistic and didn’t get the joke. They’re not being malicious or anything so I’d say just drop it. Let them live

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

This is ableism, #6. Not everyone will have the same capabilities to understand jokes, sarcasm, or humor as you do. What seems like common sense to you may not be to another autistic individual (as autism commonly can affect this). #4 was only trying to ask clarifying questions.

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