Neurodivergent on Sidechat | when my evening plans with a crush get ruined because i didn’t wanna overstep with asking when he’d like me to come over and so he thought i flaked and went out with friends </3

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Neurodivergent 4w

when my evening plans with a crush get ruined because i didn’t wanna overstep with asking when he’d like me to come over and so he thought i flaked and went out with friends </3

Anonymous 4w

he just assumed u flaked and didn't think to maybe idk ask?

Anonymous

#1 4w

yeah and like.. that’s what bothers me because i intentionally gave him a lot of space/agency/grace because that’s the type of person i am. but every time we try to hang out it’s like he takes forever to respond when it comes to last minute logistics and so i just feel bad and think i’m being a pest

Anonymous

OP 4w

that's pretty immature, not to assume the worst about him, but i just feel like any person knows that if someone agreed to plans then they're expecting to hear from u. i can understand if he was scared to bother u like how u didn't want to overstep but to not say anything at all when he's supposed to be the host is weird of him

Anonymous

#1 4w

yeah I’m disappointed. like I would understand checking in first and then if things changed making other plans but just it just feels like he’s being incredibly inconsiderate of my time, especially considering it’s hard to find matching free time in our schedules and it’s been 8 months since we’ve last hung out because of that 🫠 (shame on me for being patient all that time)