
I’ve heard people talk about it in a way where they act like consensual sex is self objectification and demeaning to the participants in some way, and therefore people should abstain from sex outside of a relationship (aka common religious ideas wrapped in the idea of “empowerment” and “self respect”)
Goddd that. And it only gets worse when they’re talking about kink. Framing it like anyone, especially women, who engages in kink is some poor soul who doesn’t have self worth and only views themself as a sexual object. Like. Hey your not being woke just because your feigning concern, your just being judgemental