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Neurodivergent 14h
posting this here too bc we’re both nd and idk if i’m being sensitive
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AITA 14h
am i overreacting by being upset that my friend wants to move my bday dinner time by 2h so she can go to a campus event? our plans are pretty casual but still 😭
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Anonymous 14h

… if it’s just the two of you and you aren’t on a tight schedule… push it back? Easy solution to make everyone happy?

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Anonymous 13h

it’s not like she’s canceling it altogether

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

it’s a group so idk if it works for everybody, it would also make it pretty late on a monday

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

If it’s a group then it’s a set commitment. You can’t change the time for one person, that might mean two others can’t go.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

Agreed. If everyone in the group is doing it at the same time, you can’t change plans because of one person unless that person is you. If friend can’t make it? Do a different night with just them

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