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Neurodivergent 3w
realizing i like this community so much more than the mh one bc the mh one is so negative all the time… like idk i’ve been there and i can confirm if you self sabotage all the time your life sucks but god forbid i tell someone there not to
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Anonymous 3w

so many ppl just let themselves wallow in their misery & that’s fine ig but they try so hard to make other people miserable too. ppl in the mh community are so against help and don’t even want to entertain the idea of progress.. like ok then just be miserable forever then???

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Anonymous 3w

not just there but all online spaces “i self sabotage everything, don’t take care of myself at all, don’t go to therapy, don’t do anything to help myself where i can, isolate all the time, skip my classes, why am i failing and miserable?” man idk and i get it i’ve been there and the thing that got me out was wanting to help myself and doing the work, even if you don’t have access to therapy, you gotta TRY

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

and it’s tiring and it’s hard and it sucks and it’s not fair don’t get me wrong. like i have so much sympathy but at some point you have to actually try to get better, it won’t just fall into your lap and you’ll wake up magically cured.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

right??? like dude live your life how you want but if you’re constantly choosing to stay miserable and not even TRY, you have to shut the fuck up it gets SO annoying and draining to be around someone who consistently makes the choice not to get help or help themself, especially if they have access to resources and just don’t want to use them. it’s so miserable.

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