iāve lost someone very close to me by suicide, I think the idea of pasting it over a happy beautiful world where weāre smiling like itās the best option is just not a good message to put out there. I get itās a meme, but it kind of spreads the idea āitās the best option! itās almost perfect!ā idk I feel like even introducing that as a concept sets a dangerous precedent
Iām very sorry about your friend⦠This is just the stuff thatās in our heads though regardless of logic. This post is more about awareness than advertising the idea. If anything I feel better knowing thereās plenty of others that feel the same way instead of keeping things like this in silence because out of fear of what others think
thank you š«¶š» and yeah I totally get that, I just think itās one thing to say āthis is an idea that many of us share, itās scary and itās hard but weāre fighting the battle togetherā vs āthis is a good idea and god I just wish it was easier so I could do it! it would be so awesome if I could!ā idk if this makes sense but I do see where youāre coming from, I think itās just the context itās presented in (& probably my own anxieties as well) that is making this post feel dangerous to me
Those are all online and therefore mean nothing. Iāve tried talking to online support groups, 988, people on here. None of it does anything because none of it is real. None of that will make people show up to my birthday or invite me to theirs. None of that fixes a single thing.