Neurodivergent on Sidechat | I feel like my biggest hurdle to a relationship is that I’m too much. I talk all the time, I’m clingy asf, I am a double texter AND an instant texter. I’m not gonna wait 30 minutes and respond with a one liner cause IM INTERESTED! (1/2)

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Neurodivergent 6w

I feel like my biggest hurdle to a relationship is that I’m too much. I talk all the time, I’m clingy asf, I am a double texter AND an instant texter. I’m not gonna wait 30 minutes and respond with a one liner cause IM INTERESTED! (1/2)

Anonymous 6w

Me too ughh.

Anonymous 6w

i’m kinda this way with friends too. like i feel like i’m too much or too needy for literally anyone

Anonymous 6w

I just feel like I’m always the one who interested and the other person is just half assing a response half the time. All this is IF I can get into a relationship in the first place because to top it all off I’m picky as hell

Anonymous 6w

texting will never scratch that itch of just talking and that’s so ok

Anonymous 6w

I think your issue is the same as mine, texting can be conversational but you shouldn’t expect it to be my best advice for you is to let yourself miss talking to them and use texting for planning/updates with the people you care about!! Also, if you really do want to go back and forth with responses, just call them!!

Anonymous

#1 6w

My issue is is that these people I meet online, I can’t call them as I’m usually not in a position to talk verbally and text is the only way to communicate

Anonymous

#3 6w

ME TOOO

Anonymous

#3 6w

As long as you don’t call or text me every single day saying that you want to kill yourself and if I don’t answer you actually attempt, or send me 27+ messages a day, or spam me with a bunch of random pictures and videos every day, you’re not too much for me. My ex did all of the above, and I stayed with her for so long because I cared about her and I thought I wouldn’t be close to anyone else.

Anonymous

OP 6w

Same. Want to be friends and we FaceTime every now and then?

Anonymous

#3 6w

Sending lots of love to you and everyone else. My DMs are open.

Anonymous

#3 6w

Ok they’re on now

Anonymous

#2 6w

Sorry, I can only communicate through text

Anonymous

OP 6w

Oh sorry I misread that lmaoo

Anonymous

OP 6w

We can still be friends if you want

Anonymous

#2 6w

Sure