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I hate how woman get twelve different fashion choices to capture 'blueberry market in eastern coastal France during the 30s on a temperate summer day' whereas guys get like....polo shirt or button down shirt or t-shirt. I mean really.
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Anonymous 7w

Honestly you too can be wearing that fit, there’s a lot of ways for men to dress up, they just sometimes have to get a bit artsy with it- like you can wear colorful scarves and get cool clothing too, even try stuff that’s traditionally more feminine and masc it up!

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Anonymous 7w

I need less options tbh

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Anonymous 7w

And then when you’re a big guy you get even less sizes and options. Neon yellow tshirts from Walmart or poop brown argyle sweater vest from DXL. Maybe if an old stylish fat man passes, you can find something at an estate sale, but thrift stores rarely have anything cute in my size.

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Anonymous 7w

You can do a lot with a button down shirt and some vests and/or coats. With menswear, it’s a lot more about small differences in the style

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Anonymous 7w

see i actually get mad and wish it could be as simple as it is for men. trying to buy work clothes was infuriating bc everything is skin tight or cropped and men can buy polo and button downs so easily and all i can find is some jank ass shit on amazon thats a sexualized button down 😫

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Anonymous 7w

Buttoned shirts are the way to go and you definitely need to know how to style it. Antique stores out thrift or you get lucky at garage sales. I wondered if I would get called gay for dressing the way I do but honestly I’ve only gotten compliments

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Anonymous 7w

Thats why you gotta get creative wit it

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

I have some floral beige shirts that are nice and old dickies to wear it with. If I want to be more flamboyant I have colorful vests. I wear neckties properly and always a belt if the top of my pants is visible. I got very lucky to find a nice big old fashioned overcoat and it’s great to wear in cold weather. So you have to be patient and persistent with thrifting

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