Neurodivergent on Sidechat | he admitted to also having sexual thoughts and apparently slapping their ass, but nothing happened?? and he only loves me? is this cheating?? i just have this dull pain in my chest all he can give me is that he “didn’t know what he was thinking”

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Neurodivergent 5d

he admitted to also having sexual thoughts and apparently slapping their ass, but nothing happened?? and he only loves me? is this cheating?? i just have this dull pain in my chest all he can give me is that he “didn’t know what he was thinking”

Neurodivergent 1w

not sure where else to talk about this. im very anxiety riddled. i think that counts. my partner recently told me about platonically cuddling with a friend after the fact, and it made me upset they didn’t consider my boundaries prior. cont in replies

Anonymous 5d

reading back “is this cheating” sounds so dumb but i genuinely can’t tell im just distraught like no technically they didn’t sleep together or kiss but it was still inappropriate as hell

Anonymous 5d

He… slapped their ass and has admitted to having sexual thoughts about them and is cuddling with them… what more do you need??? This is NOT committed boyfriend behavior and he is obviously knowingly disrespecting your boundaries

Anonymous 5d

If it makes you uncomfortable talk to him if he brushes it off or keeps doing it leave he’s not the one

Anonymous 5d

don’t waste your time with someone who doesn’t respect you or your boundaries for your relationship. it’s hard to pull off the bandaid but you’ll be rid of these gross feelings once you do

Anonymous 5d

only you can define infidelity in your relationship. crossed boundaries is infidelity

Anonymous 3d

i say it’s not cheating, but it’s crossing a boundary and unacceptable. even if “nothing happened” the fact that he’s disrespecting your boundaries is a very bad sign