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having DID is so fun because it sucks, the people that are really loud about it suck, and then because they’re loud af all anyone knows about it is straight up wrong or misinformation assuming the best
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Anonymous 1w

no evil alters are not a thing. no i don’t have a secret serial killer side to me. no it’s not that i have built in friends in my head. no alters are not separate people. they’re just fragmented parts of a single identity. they’re incomplete pieces of what i would’ve been that developed differently because of amnesia.

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Anonymous 1w

Silly question but are you aware/can tell the difference when you’re in an altered state?

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Anonymous 1w

i'm sorry you have to deal with all of that. did was a special interest of mine when i was younger and i was probably so annoying about it because i thought i understood and i also convinced myself i had it cuz i wanted the same attention 😭

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Anonymous 6d

very tired of people treating it as “silly alter disorder” and not a trauma disorder that is distressing, confusing and insanely complicated

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Anonymous 5d

Ahh it’s great to see another system on here! I have OSDD so some of my experiences have been pretty different, but the misinformation on DID/OSDD is such a pain. I’m not very open about it IRL, but sometimes I wish I could be. It’s just such a misunderstood disorder that being open about it is extremely difficult.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

no you don’t just get it, it’s from severe childhood trauma. no you can’t develop it as an adult, it may not present or be noticeable until you’re an adult but it develops as a child before the age of 10. no i don’t hear voices in my head.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

yes there’s treatment for it but there’s no cure, and anyone telling you they fixed it on their own is not telling the truth because the treatment takes years of intense professional guidance and even if all the parts fuse into one, they can always split back up again. yes you can still develop new alters later. no they do not just appear from nothing, it’s caused by trauma or stress, there will always be a reason.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

depends, sometimes yes sometimes it’s just 6 hours later and i have to figure out what the hell was going on

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

being aware is mostly just feeling like i don’t align with my name, gender/sexuality/etc, appearance, and knowing i’m acting different than normal. can also come with knowing i don’t remember something but not knowing what, emotional disconnect from memories, stuff like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

usually though it’s not like a sudden “where am i oh my god what’s happening” and most of the time i don’t even notice until later unless it’s drastically different but it’s not alarming, you get used to it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

nah i totally get being young and wanting a label for what you’re going through, everyone does it, life is hard and having a name to what you’re going through and other people to talk with about your struggles is a basic human need. tldr i get why stuff like that happens+

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

+and i’m not against using it as a label for yourself and privately tracking symptoms and such, because it can be helpful to explain things later, but when people get online and act like an expert in it or like there’s no chance they’re wrong about it, it does get… weird for me. i get why it happens, but also tired of 14-17 year olds acting like they’re infallible experts (not at you specifically)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

yeah i understand 100%. something like did varies so much from person to person too you really can't be an expert on it without spending yearsssss studying it and everyone's experiences with it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

it’s such a complex disorder and i do find it interesting, in part because it helps me understand myself better, but it’s unique for everyone and even the DSM5 is heavily criticized for some of the stuff about it (specifics escape me). i hope we continue to understand more about it in the future.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Like I would love to feel like one complete person actually. I would love to have one concrete set of interests or desires, to recognize myself in the mirror, to not feel like I’m playing a part and the words are coming out wrong. To live in one space at a time instead of many that collide.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

right and like, i don’t think someone on the internet owes anyone their trauma or worst moments to “justify” their disorder but i also wish people who post about it regularly would also acknowledge the tough shit with it instead of just the “silly” stuff bc YES ALL OF THAT!!! IT SUCKS SOMETIMES MAN

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

100%

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