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Neurodivergent 21h
Anybody else always end up as an outsider? No matter how social I am, people my age just don’t want to hang around me, but older ppl love me??
457 upvotes, 15 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Neurodivergent. "Anybody else always end up as an outsider? No matter how social I am, people my age just don’t want to hang around me, but older ppl love me??"
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Anonymous 20h

No fr most of my friends are older, I also don’t do great in large friend groups

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Anonymous 17h

we are the npcs, whelp time to be a loved npc by the history books

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Anonymous 20h

Omg me haha

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Anonymous 17h

I feel like everyone always chooses someone else, never me

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Anonymous 14h

all of you are literally me

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Anonymous 17h

Same ur not alone at all

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Anonymous 10h

Ever since I was little I was always better with the adults and adults who are older than me

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Anonymous 9h

I relate to this sm. But honestly I've come up love older people. They're so insightful and kind. They give the best advice and are so interesting because we're from different generations. Learning about their lives is so fun! I am 21 and have friends that are 40+ Of course my friends joke about how young I am, and I joke about how old they are. But we get along great

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

Actually and it hurts so bad because I just want someone to choose me… like my fam says they do, but they don’t understand the difference between choosing fam and choosing friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

Everyone my age is so immature in a bad way.. I always feel like I’m hanging out w children, but also the older ppl don’t wanna be friends w me cause I’m “so young”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Yea I feel the same way, though lately I’ve also run into some immature older people. Like this dude I’m really trying to be friends with but he cancels like 70% of the stuff we plan

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Literally. And I’m so caring and nice and feel like I have others best interests in mind and maybe that’s the problem is nice ppl always come last basically

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

No actually and I thought I was doing good but my roommate took advantage of my want to always care for ppl and now I feel so alone and just want someone to like me 😞

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11h

I would say “ayeeee twinsies 🙏” but based on the circumstances I’ll say “ayee twinsies 😔”

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9h

Lowkey millenials and gen x are so cool and I wish I could be from their generation cuz their pop culture was elite

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