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Guys I finally unlocked how to be social, you just stop thinking, in general. Tbh looking at most social people I know I should’ve guessed
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Anonymous 11w

If we were meant to dwell in the internal recesses of our minds alone we would not have eyes and hands and feet and nature all around to engage with. One can engage with others mindfully, and it’s unnecessary to be friends with everyone

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Anonymous 11w

that and copious amounts of caffeine

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Anonymous 9w

Genuinely yeah. I used to care deeply about the things I said in social environments, and whether or not I was suceeding at being social. But now I just operate under the assumption that everybody I talk to loves me and everything I say is interesting and funny and I've genuinely never made so many friends so easily.

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Anonymous 11w

Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people" - Eleanor Roosevelt. If you wanna talk to somebody with a small mind, bring up somebody else. (Mind you this often gets you socially in trouble and creates drama)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

Obvious self reflection is still required periodically, I'm not advocating total self delusion, but in conversation you just have to become the kind of person who knows that they're doing well

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