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I matched with someone new on an app and they said “tell me about yourself” and I nearly unmatched immediately...
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Anonymous 5w

So tuff 🥶🥶

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Anonymous 4w

You should unmatch for the sake of them lol. Being so aggressive about nothing will get you nowhere interpersonally.

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Anonymous 4w

Whoa this one really is triggering some folks 😂😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

So vague! And this questions always feels performative, am I in a job interview?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Its formalities gang

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

To me it's lazy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Wtf are they supposed to ask you then? They’re giving you a huge opportunity to talk about whatever

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

How tf is it lazy and performative when they know little to nothing about you??

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

I think it's lazy bc my profile is filled in and so I always start with the person’s profile and ask questions based on what I know instead of such a wide vague questions.

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Anonymous 5w

???

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Why are u on the app bud

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Be real nobody’s fucking OP

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

It's a friendship app.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Yes for sure. Doing us both a favor. I don't think its aggressive to immediately clock a mismatch in communication style tho. But I get you.

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