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Neurodivergent 1d
I don’t get why people hang out with ppl / date ppl they don’t even like fr. Like if I don’t like spending time with you.. I’m not going to? Like who tf is holding the gun to ur head? Just leave dawg it’s a free world
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Anonymous 23h

no fr like not my mom asking why i want to go see my boyfriend two weekends in a row.. like god forbid i LIKE my partner and enjoy spending time with him 😭🤚

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Anonymous 22h

I do this sometimes (not the dating one tho that’s kinda nuts) and is usually cause I’m either scared of the confrontation, think I’m being unreasonable about not liking them for some reason, they know someone I know so avoiding them is difficult, or I just got attached and have a difficult time letting go of them. Like logically it is kinda stupid but humans don’t always act logically.

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Anonymous 20h

Sometimes there are material benefits involved. Sometimes people would prefer that to being alone…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

That’s valid, I mean more of the like choosing to be around someone you don’t even want to be around. I get the not wanting to cause a problem aspect of it

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