Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
Please explain how I desperately want an apartment and a full time job but am also terrified I can’t handle and am going to end up failing? I just graduated. Can you tell?
upvote 241 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 1d

felt. i graduated last year and felt like a failure up until like last month. let yourself fail a little, it’s important to work through things now rather than commit to things you’ll hate for a long time

upvote 33 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1d

graduated in december, still living at home, and just got a job as an administrative assistant like 3 weeks ago. i feel like the biggest failure.

upvote 22 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 21h

if you don’t try you’ll be at the same place as if you failed, might as well give it a shot

upvote 9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 20h

failing is the only way you learn. you might fail, but you will survive.

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 15h

you just gotta take that step let fear be your motivator fear and stress isnt a barrier its the next step to get you to lock in and live the life you want

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

hey you finished school and are employed! more than most folks can say

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

True, only 62-68% of college students complete their degree within six years and 23-25% drop out before the end of Freshman year. That’s an accomplishment in itself. It’s way too expensive to not live at home out of college anymore, this generation will have to live a lot differently than previous ones since everything went up in price except for wages.

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" - Wayne Gretzky - Michael Scott

upvote 1 downvote